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Newsletter for the week of Nov. 21-25, 2016
November 23, 2016
|Nov. 23, 2016
Is the U.S. a “divided country?”
It seems that each time I watch the news there is some mention of how “divided” our country is.
I’d like to disagree.
At our core, humans agree on some very important things…
At this time of year, I think most of us in the U.S. agree that Thanksgiving is one amazing holiday... it’s an entire day devoted to eating with friends and family—or even alone. (How cool is that!?!)
It is probably also safe to say that many people agree that mash potatoes rock. And especially with … gravy. :-)
And, so is turkey and creamed sweet potatoes with crunchy pecan topping. And grandma’s ham or homemade pie.
Despite the differences in our beliefs and political views, most people in the U.S. do their best to be considerate of others, including those who have different opinions, values, and lifestyles than themselves.
I think we can all agree that each one of us is simply looking to be happy and loved.
So… while the news sees a divide, talking about it without providing solutions is, frankly, unconstructive.
Perhaps talking about the supposed “divide” over and over adds and even perpetuates the idea that we are divided by creating behaviors in people to prove the divide.
Our nation is not divided, it is utilizing its greatest gift… our freedom to express ourselves.
It is the freedoms outlined in the U.S. Constitution that unite us … and make our country truly The United States of America.
There is plenty that we agree.
The media provides the service of finding and sharing all the news the rest of us are too busy to find or know about. But, sometimes it’s a bit negative.
That is why I so appreciated Elizabeth Bernstein’s(1) article in this week’s Wall Street Journal.
She gives tips for making it through the Thanksgiving holiday with a divisive family.
One of them is “Remember that the other person is complex.” Bernstein says you don’t have to agree with the other person, but understand that he or she has different life experiences.
Being open doesn’t mean you have to agree. But, being open and listening does say that you accept another as a person with the same right as you to share a thought.
The more we listen with an open mind and heart and remember we are each unique and complex the more we can accept that people are doing their very best—as best as they can—to move forward in their life’s journey.
No one sincerely wants to be divided or hurt others.
One constructive solution to this “divide” is to be more gentle with each other. Especially our friends, loved ones, and co-workers. Maybe then the media will start reporting on something else more positive.
To switch gears a bit… as promised, there are 5 writing prompts below to get you and/or your students thinking and writing. Topics are pertinent and timely for this time of year.
Have a beautiful, food-filled, loving Thanksgiving holiday, if you celebrate.
All the best always,
(1)Bernstein, E. (2016, November 21). How to avoid a Thanksgiving blowup/a Thanksgiving Day family peace plan. The Wall Street Journal, A13,A15.
“Change in all things is sweet.”--Aristotle
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